Daughter, get as much education as you can. If anything ever happens to your husband, life will be up to you. Education is not your way out, it is your way forward.
Son, get as much education as you can. It is your job to provide the most security possible for your family. It is also your responsibility to encourage your wife to continue her education in case anything happens to you.
No excuses: Take care of her as well as you can while you are here; make sure she can take care of herself if you are gone.
This is modern-day chivalry. This is one way to honor your family.